Showing posts with label Be Yourself. Show all posts
Showing posts with label Be Yourself. Show all posts

2012-05-16

Arnold Schwarzenegger's Rules of Life

Back from my long break! Hope people are still around. This video that I just uploaded is an edited Commencement Address by Arnold Schwarzenegger, the 38th Governor of California, at the University of Southern California on Rules of Life. Enjoy!



Arnold Schwarzenegger:
People ask me all the time, they say to me "What is the secret to Success?"
The First rule is Trust Yourself, but what is most important is that you have to be dig down, dig deep down and ask yourselves who you want to be, not what but who. And I'm talking about not with your parents and teachers want you to be, I'm talking about favoring out for yourselves, what makes you Happy, no matter how crazy it may sound to the people.
Rule number one was trust yourselves no matter how, what anyone else thinks.

Rule number Two is Break the Rules. We have so many rules in Life about everything. I say break the rules! Not the law, but break the rules. It is impossible to be maverick or a true original if you're too well behaved and not want to break the rules. You have to think outside the box. That's what I believe. After all, what is the point of being on this Earth if all you want is be like by everyone and avoid trouble?
The only way I ever got anyplace was by breaking some of the rules.

Rule number Three: Don't Be Afraid to Fail. Anything I've ever attempted, I was always willing to fail. You can't always win, but don't be afraid of making decisions. You can't be paralyzed by fear or failure or you will never push yourself. You keep pushing because you believe in yourself and in your vision and you know that it is the right thing to do, and success will come. So don't be afraid to fail.

Rule number Four which is Don't Listen to the Naysayers. How many times have you heard that you can't do this and you can't do that and it's never been done before. I love it when someone says that no one has ever done this before, because then when I do it that means I'm the first one that has done it. So pay no attention to the people that say it can't be done. I never listen that, "You can't!" I always listen to myself and say, "Yes You Can!"

Rule number Five, which is the most important rule of all: Work Your Butt Off. Believe in leaving no stone unturned. Mohammed Ali, one of my great heroes, had a great line in the '70s when he was asked, "How many sit-ups did you do?" He said: "I don't count my sit-ups, I only count when it starts hurting. When I feel pain, that's when I start counting, because that's when it really counts." That's what makes you a champion. That's the way it is in everything. No pain, no gain. When you are partying, horsing around, someone out there at the same time is working hard. Someone is getting smarter, and someone is winning, just remember that. If you want to win, there is absolutely no way around hard, hard work.
None of my rules by the way of success will work unless you do.I've always figured out that there's 24 hours a day. You sleep six hours, and have 18 hours left. I know that there are some of you out there that say well, wait a minute, I sleep 8 hours or 9 hours a day. Well then, just sleep faster I would recommend.

Rule number Six which is a very important rule: It's About Giving Back. Whatever path that you take in your lives, you must always find time to give something back, something back to your community, give something back to your state or to your country. Let me tell you something, reaching out and helping people will bring you more satisfaction than anything else you have ever done.

Remember those Six Rules:
Trust Yourself, Break Some Rules, Don't Be Afraid To Fail, Ignore The Naysayers, Work Like Hell, and Give Something Back.


2012-04-29

40 Ways to Live Life Without Regrets


* 1. Realize that it's okay to make mistakes
Just make sure to learn from your past mistakes, forgive yourself and move on.

* 2. Make your Health and Wellness a top priority
and always take care of yourself so you're ready to take care of others.

* 3. Follow your own Path
not one that others want you to follow.

* 4. Find the Humor in Life
and Laugh like there is no tomorrow.

* 5. Relax and Move with the Flow
of Life by being Unafraid of Change.

* 6. Be Adventurous
by trying New Things and taking more Risks.

* 7. Have more Intellectual Curiosity
and Embrace Creativity.

* 8. Try to find Happiness
with as many different people as you can.

* 9. Think for Yourself
instead of letting other people's opinions influence you too much.

* 10. Try not to judge people
before you get to know them.

* 11. Be Thankful for what you have now
instead of think about what you don't have.

* 12. Wish Well upon everyone Equally
and try to admire with envy.

* 13. Share your Happiness with others
instead of hoarding it all for yourself.

* 14. Don't try to change someone
Love who they are now.

* 15. Enjoy the Journey,
not just the destination.

* 16. Know that Happiness is Bigger
than any bank account.

* 17. Control negative thoughts
so that they don't contribute to the outcome of your life.

* 18. Use your Energy Wisely
because spending energy complaining, worrying or being impatient is just wasted energy.

* 19. Be Bold.
Find the Courage to change things that should be changed and accept that there are some things that cannot be changed.

* 20. Love your Work
If you don't currently Love what you do, figure out what you would Love, and take the First Step toward that Life.

* 21. Turn your discontent into a mystery
and enjoy trying to solve it.

* 22. Face problems from different angles
in order to find Solutions.

* 23. Gain Independence 
by realizing that on this Earth we are all Dependent upon each other.

* 24. Change your Perspective
by taking on a Wider view of things.

* 25. Don't waste time
trying to bring disagreeable people around to liking you.

* 26. Become the person
who would like to spend the rest of your Life with.

* 27. Be Honest with yourself
and others by saying what you mean and meaning what you say.

* 28. Treat people with Respect
and Compassion.

* 29. Live in the Now
by Loving the Present and being Aware of your Thoughts and Actions.
Think Happy Thoughts and Speak Powerful Words.

* 30. Try not to put things off
until later.

* 31. Never hold grudges.

* 32. Face your fears head on
and try to do the things that you think you cannot do.

* 33. Spend time with people who make you happy
while also not depending on other people for your own Happiness.

* 34. Stand up for Yourself
and others and don't let anyone or anything hold you back.

* 35. Be Yourself
and Love who your are now.

* 36. Be a Participant in Life
rather than an observer.

* 37. Do the things that you Love to do
as much as you can.

* 38. Write out a list of Goals
and achieve them by doing them Step by Step.
Don't Give Up when things get difficult.

* 39. Do something everyday that makes you feel Proud of yourself
commit random acts of Kindness whenever you get the chance.

* 40. And always
Keep on Moving Forward.

2012-04-20

Frank Gehry: Be Yourself



Frank Gehry is a Pritzker Prize-winning Architect based in Los Angeles, Califonia. He is also a Distinguished Professor of Architecture at Columbia University and teaches advanced design studios at the Yale School of Architecture. His best known works include the Guggenheim Museum in Bilbao, Spain; Walt Disney Concert Hall in downtown Los Angeles; Experience Music Project in Seattle; Dancing House in Prague; and 8 Spruce Street in New York City.

Frank Gehry:
I tell kids and I tell my students that they should not look over their shoulders, they should be themselves and find their own way. They will slowly realize they will become the expert in their work and nobody else is expert in their work and that they will have... and so don't matter what somebody else said. Maybe they won't like it, at least you are still in control and you're the expert in your work. And over time if it's any good it will find it's way into the bigger picture. And it may be Great and not find it's way into the bigger picture, like Van Rohe didn't when he was alive. Who's to say what's good and what's bad in the end so for once only in life. I think that's where you go. You find your own thing, you relate to it, it's your Strength, and you'll have a pretty Good Life. Don't try to look over your shoulder and try and be what the next person is, because you can't be what they are anyway. So, that's what I tell my kids, and I do that myself.